What happens when there are friends watching or there is a crowd?
Most likely, because we all want approval, we take the viewpoint of the observers, not one’s own. First miss-hit, first mistake and your game cannot be found with a magnifying glass.
It may have even happened at home, as a young child, and become the norm.
Stay focused, look through your own eyes, don’t wander. You don’t need approval other than your own!